i fucking found you!
Thanks to zabasearch, I unbelievably got in contact with Jess! There listed several phone numbers and addresses for possible matches, so I called one and that first call was answered by him. I'm stoked, it's unbelievable. And I didn't have to pay to find this information, which leads me to freak out about how "safe" my personal information is also. Well I really don't have to worry about it anyway because who'd be looking for me right? Whew.
I'm on such a high right now. It's weird, I wanted to do this all week, and it happened. Cool.